After 80, the filial female resigned and took care of her father. Long-term coexistence but lack of communication

The adoptive father was injured. Chen Min, 26, took him home to live with his parents-in-law and husband. In order to take care of the adoptive father, she resigned from her job. In the past two years, the adoptive father had never had a hemorrhoids. Chen Min was called by the community residents' committee and neighbors as daughters of the 80's. "Even if you are biological, you may not be able to take care of it so well." Yesterday, Gao Yi, secretary of the Dadukou Jinyang community, commented on Chen Min.

The adoptive father is unconscious and she calls out every day.

"Dad, come and drink saliva." Yesterday, when the reporter came to Chen Minjia, she was feeding his father Chen Bichao. Chen Bichao's sheets and blankets were clean and without any odors. Gao Yi said that Chen Min Chao had never had acne because of Chen Min’s meticulous care.

"I don't care for him. Who else will take care of it?" Chen Min said that since her adopted father had been injured, she resigned and took full care of her.

Chen Min said that in September 2010, adoptive father accidentally fell into the elevator shaft late at night in the construction site, and the lumbar spine broke and became unconscious for more than two months. During this period, Chen Min called him every day around his adoptive father. Later, the adoptive father finally regained consciousness, but the lower body was paralyzed. Since then, Chen Min resigned from the factory to take care of the adoptive father. Although many people advised her to send a foster father to a nursing home, she thought that others would not take care of it so much that she never agreed.

What touched her was that when the adoptive father could be discharged from the hospital, the mother-in-law proposed to take him home and live. Later, a family of five lived together and Chen Min took care of the foster father at home every day.

Turning over, bathing, feeding, changing drugs ... ... tedious little things, she was in every possible way, even wearing gloves to help his defecation.

Watching her daughter take care of herself so much, Chen Bichao, who was originally suspicious, told reporters: "Now I don't want to die. I often dream of my daughter."

Long-term coexistence but lack of exchange

Although Chen Min devoted himself to adopting father-in-law, it was unexpected that the father and daughter had no common language at all, and Chen Min even said that they could not "communicate."

Chen Min introduced that she is a foster father who was adopted after she was born. From a young age, she only knew that her family was very poor. The foster father was doing farm work all day long. Because the adoptive father was not married, and she was adopted, she felt strange eyes from childhood. Since Chen Min sensible, she has found that adoptive father is very stubborn and often talks badly. "Father did not get married, and his bad temper can be understood." Chen Min said that she and her father had never talked once when they were small.

Chen Bichao had been deceived by the woman for many times, and some people refused because he had a baby. The only thing that made Chen Bichao happy was that his daughter had excellent grades in elementary school and was always the top few in the class. However, her daughter’s grade dropped after she went to school, and she also gave up reading.

"How poor is my home?" said Chen Min. After listening to her daughter's explanation, Chen Bichao immediately refuted yesterday: "It's absolutely nonsensical to say that the money you read is certainly something I have."

The reporter found out through the conversation between the father and the daughter yesterday that because Chen Bichao had managed the money tightly, Chen Min felt that the family was so poor and had no money for her to study. She later gave up reading. Chen Bichao said that he had managed to keep the money tightly in order to save his tuition for his daughter because the two did not communicate and he had misunderstood so far.

The foster father is actually eager to communicate

Chen Min said that she would occasionally complain to her adoptive father. Although Chen Bichao was not good at expressing feelings, but the reporter passed through with him and realized that he loved his daughter. Whether it was recalling a child's daughter who was sensible to help with housework, or an elementary school teacher commending her for her excellent performance, and now her daughter's care for him, Chen Bichao showed a happy look.

When the reporter asked if he wanted to talk with his daughter, he only said "what I didn't want to do," and then talked about other topics.

"You see it, he always does this, so he can't communicate." Chen Min said. At this point, Chen Bichao closed his mouth and turned his head away, saying nothing.

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